If you prefer, In leiu of flowers, all donations can be made to Zaven Jendian Memorial Fund and mailed to 4842 Vista Street, San Diego, Ca 92116.
We so, so appreciate all the love and condolences we have received thus far. Zaven is at peace and smiling at all the love — I just know it. Though this process has been very painful, we have been nourished by your love and support. Thank you for celebrating with us when he was born, rooting him on during his life, and aching when he passed away. Though the road ahead looks bleak, I know each day, the flowers will appear brighter than the day before and the air will feel more and more refreshing.
We also want to acknowledge the amazing love and care we received from the Sharp Mary Birch nurses and RTs, doctors and staff. We especially want to thank Emily, Amy, Vanessa, Erin, Kat, and Nicoll; you showed us how to comfortably share our love with him in his environment through the example of the love and attention you showered him with. Your laughter, tears and hugs healed us when we needed to be healed the most. Thank you also to Karen for listening and offering wisdom when needed.
I have posted some more pictures of Zaven in the photos section. In these pictures, Zaven is tube free. Much love, Aleen.
We prayed every night to God to give the best for Zaven and you guys . It takes brave and God trusting parents to do what you did . May God keep you and your two kids in good health , and Asdvadz tsez mikhitaree . Love Nishan and Annie
Dearest Micah and Aleen~
Wish we could be there to celebrate our little Zaven’s victory in life. His life showed us the importance of hope, our expressions of faith and the abundant nature of our ability to love. As his parents you have provided many, if not all of us with words that heal our hearts by “knowing” that the sweet little man that stole our hearts is at peace and smiling at all the love~
We will be with you on Thursday in thought and prayer…
love,
Uncle Harold, Auntie Dianne, & Cousin Andrea
I just heard the news on Zaven, and I wanted to send the entire family my deepest condolences. He put up such an incredible fight, and I’m sure that he’s in a beautiful place.
I don’t know what else to say, I’m so sorry.
Love,
Dan
Aleen and Micah~
I just want you to both know that Rodrigo and I think that you are two of the most amazing people we have ever met. In this time of sadness, you are still keeping everyone up to date and aware of everything that beautiful baby Zaven has been through. We admire your strength, and courage, and we know that God gave Zaven to you becuase you are such wonderful parents. We love you and God bless you.
Rodrigo & Dana
Dear Micah and Aleen,
My deepest sympathies during your time of loss. Zaven will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do.
With heartfelt condolences,
Michael N. Markarian
Aleen and Micah–We just got word of Zaven’s passing, and know how difficult a time this must be. Mary and I want to let you know how much we support you in this time of sadness, so short-lived was the time of joy for you and Zaven. Our deepest sympathy and fondest support.
Howard and Mary
Dear Micah & Aleen -
We’re sorry that the day we discovered this weblog, we heard the sad news. I read back to the earlier posts and read about the daily wait sessions you guys went through. You two are probably the bravest couple I know, having gone through this experience (after the real brave soul of course, baby Zaven). It is difficult to imagine so much as a small bandaid on a baby’s skin, let alone tubes, etc… it takes ultra brave hearts to hang on to sanity.
We are so sorry for your loss and can only imagine your pain. Unfortunately for us, we will not be able to attend the funeral and hug you in person, but know that you will be in our thoughts.
With much love,
Nayiri & Ago Dermenjian
Aleen and Micah,
We are so sorry that little Zaven could not be with you longer in this life. Our deepest sympathies to you. We will not forget Zaven as he will be forever loved and missed.
Sincerely,
Holly and Tim
Dear Jendian & Jibilian Families,
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you as little Zaven has put up an amazing fight. Azad and I send our deepest condolences to you and your family. We will be with you in spirit on Thursday. Zaven is such a beautiful little soul, he will be with us forever.
Much Love,
Azad & Sylvia Deeb
Dear Micha and Aleen,
My deepest sympathies to you during this time. I am so deeply touched by Zaven’s time here and thank you for the opportunity to know him through your words and pictures. He is so beautiful. Please know that he and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Trina
Dearest Jendian Family,
It is with great sadness that we received the news of the passing of Baby Zaven. God has provided you all with more strength than the human mind can imagine, and Zaven was lucky to be surrounded with such love and support during his short time on this earth.
May the Lord always light and guide your path, and may the happy memories of Baby Zaven always remain in your hearts.
We regret that we will not be able to attend the funeral, but please know that we are there in spirit.
Love,
Kalamkarian Family
Dear Micha & Aleen,
We were so sorry to hear the news about Zaven’s passing. We can’t pretend to know the pain you are feeling! Unfortunately, we know all too well about the heartache you were experiencing while Zaven was in the hospital! As you know, Blake went through a lot too. They sure do put up a fight! It will take a lot of love, strength and family unity to get through this. We send our deepest sympathy and overwhelming support!
Much Love,
Jake & Kim
Micah and Aleen, It’s been years since I’ve seen either of you or heard about you, and when I saw the name Jendian on Father Vazken Movsesian’s email, I had to find out what had happened and to whom. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beautiful baby boy. You have my deepest sympathy, love and prayers. I have to tell you that you have a beautiful family and I know with time you will be strong and well. At the present, I pray that you’ll feel God’s peace. Lots of love, Lory Bedikian
Dear Micha, Aleen, Anais and Van,
Zaven Avedis, our precious grandnephew, hung in there because he wanted to touch and feel the love of his family here on earth and give us all time to know him.
He is now at peace. We picture Zaven with little angel wings being greeted lovingly, with open arms, by his cousin David.
Thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.
Our Lord will give you comfort and understanding.
We thank God for your wonderful family and friends who also give comfort and support.
Deepest condolences and love to you,
Uncle Seth and Auntie Bev
Micha & Aleen-
We are so incredibly sorry for your loss! I am sure he has been greeted with great warmth by my niece, Jamie, and will be remembered by us all!
You ALL are in our thoughts and prayers!
Love,
Lara, Rob, Pheona, Everett and Quinlan
Jackson, Marley and I went to the ocean at 11:30 today. We brought with us flowers to throw into the waves and said prayers for all of you. The sky was bluer than I have ever seen and I saw baby Zaven nestled in the arms of God. We are here for you in the days, weeks, months and years ahead to talk about Zaven and keep his love and light surrounding you and our community. We will see you soon.
Aleen, Mica and beautiful family- my heart aches as hear of your pain. I am so, so sorry for this anguish you must go through. Thoughts, prayers ,love and support for you and the journey you begin today.
love,
Rhea Dawn
Micah & Aleen,
Thinking about you & praying for your precious family each day!
Please let me know if there is anything extra I might be able to extend your way, to help make Van’s first experience at preschool a smooth & easier transition for him. Please know the teachers & I will be here to support your family in any way we can.
Love, Prayers and Peace be with you all,
Connie
Aleen & Micah,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Zaven was a beautiful boy born into a beautiful family who gave him all the love a soul could ever ask for. Your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Robin, Julio, Danika & Evan Ramos
Dearest Aleen, Micah, Jendian and Jibilian Families,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing away of baby Zaven. We just learned of this sad news and express our sincere and heartfelt condolences. Baby Zaven was blessed to have such strong and loving parents. He is now with GOD and we shall remember forever baby Zaven’s fighting spirit.
Please know that we are here for you during this sad time.
Love always
Nath Family
Dear Aleen and Micah,
We heard the service was beautiful. Wish we could have been there for you guys. We send our love and support. Missing you so much already.
Love Kim and Brad
Dear Aleen and Micah,
Pamela gave me your e-mail address. We wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We were so sorry to hear about baby Zaven passing away. Your Dad and Pamela filled us in on the funeral. We heard it was very beatuiful for the little Angel that he was. I know it is hard to understand right now why this happened, but God has great plans ahead for you and your family.
Love,
Greg and Susan Poladian and Family
Dear Micha and Aleen,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of baby Zaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God always bless you. Our deepest sympathies are with you during this difficult time.
Love,
Mampre and Justine Pomakian
Dear Aleen, Micah, Anais and Vaughn,
I’m kinda in shock right now… Debbie(Sadie’s) mom called me today to chat and informed me of your tragic loss of baby Zaven. I am so, so, sorry. I can’t imagine the pain you are feeling. My thoughts and prayes are with all of you. I am here for you in any way possible.
Love,
Monique